Five First Look Alternatives

When it comes to my favorite moments to photograph during a couple’s wedding day my mind automatically goes to three things: golden hour portraits, wedding details, and a first look.

For many, a first look is more than just a photo op! It is a time when two people can share an intimate moment that no one can take away from them. But, a first look isn’t for everyone! If you’re on the fence about whether or not you should do a first look on your big day, then you’re in the right place! I want to share five first look alternatives you can use on your wedding day. The following alternatives hold both a time of intamcy and create a picture-perfect moment!

Let’s get into it!


A First Touch

If you are debating between a first look vs. no first look, a first touch is a good in-between option. Many couples choose to do a first touch instead of a first look because it still feels intimate and personal without taking away the surprise.

First Love Letter

For many, writing letters to their partner is the best way to express how they feel. Now you can take this sweet gesture up a notch by including it on your wedding day. Stand back to back while reading your love letters to combine two wedding first look alternatives, the first reading and first touch. This makes for a tender moment and stunning wedding photos.

First Cheers

If you are looking for a non-traditional way to celebrate you and your partner before the ceremony then a first cheers may be perfect for you! Gather champagne flutes, bubbly, and cheers together before walking down the aisle.

A First Gift

Giving and receiving gifts is always fun, sentimental and a great photo opportunity, so why not do it as a wedding first look alternative? Take a few moments before the start of your ceremony to exchange a small gift of love! (And be sure your photographer captures this moment.)

A First Prayer

Your religion can play as big or as little of a role as you would like in your wedding! If you want to respect your religion then a moment of prayer could work in place of a first look. Take time to hold your partner’s hand, pray together, and create a space of faith before saying, “I do”.


Your wedding day is one of the most special days of your life and you deserve to do it the way you want! Feel free to use any of these alternatives or, if you are looking to skip any type of look, request they be removed from your wedding timeline!

Additionally, if you are actively looking for a wedding photographer then I would love to schedule a meeting with you where we can talk about your first look alternative and how I can be a part of creating forever memories for you and your partner!

Until then…

xoxo-

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